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Best for me- Joyner Lucas & Jelly Roll.

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Echoes of Hope in the Melody of Struggle: Breaking Down 'Best for Me' by Joyner Lucas and Jelly Roll In the realm of music, there are songs that entertain, songs that distract, and then there are songs that reach deep into the tapestry of human experience and resonate with the raw, unvarnished truth of life. "Best for Me" by Joyner Lucas and Jelly Roll is a powerful testament to this latter kind, a song that speaks to the heart of addiction, struggle, and the glimmer of hope that persists even in the darkest of times. The track opens with a haunting melody, setting a tone that is both introspective and laden with a sense of impending catharsis. Joyner Lucas, known for his sharp lyricism and ability to weave complex narratives, does not disappoint. His words are more than just rhymes; they are confessions, revelations, and a search for redemption. *"I've been losing my mind trying to figure it out, But I'm stuck in a drought, I guess I'll start again. ...

Thinking your way sober?

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SMART Recovery: The Brainy Approach to Beating Addiction Welcome to the world of SMART Recovery, where your journey to sobriety is led by the head, not just the heart. If you're looking for a recovery program that's less "Higher Power" and more "power of your own thinking," then you've clicked on the right post. Let’s dive into the world of Self-Management and Recovery Training (SMART), a program that's as practical as a Swiss Army knife and as modern as your smartphone's latest update. The SMART Formula: Science + Support = Sobriety SMART Recovery is like the cool, rational cousin of the recovery program family. It's based on scientific research and focuses on cognitive-behavioral therapy and motivational strategies. Think of it as a mental gym where you work out your brain to overcome addiction. It's for anyone who wants to bid farewell to any type of addictive behavior, not just alcohol or drugs, but also gambling, eating disorders, an...

A walk down the Red Road

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The Red Road to Wellbriety: A Journey of Healing and Hope In the heart of Native American wisdom lies a path to recovery and well-being known as the Red Road to Wellbriety. This profound journey transcends the conventional approaches to sobriety by weaving the rich tapestry of Indigenous cultural beliefs, traditions, and practices into the healing process. It's a path that not only leads to overcoming substance use disorder but also to restoring balance and harmony within oneself, the community, and the environment. Embracing Indigenous Wisdom in Recovery The Red Road to Wellbriety is more than a program; it's a way of life that is deeply ingrained in Native American and First Peoples' worldviews. It is a holistic approach that encompasses the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of life, recognizing that all these elements are interconnected and essential to achieving true wellness (HeinOnline). The Meaning of Wellbriety "Wellbriety" is a term that ...

Wisconsin Sober: Navigating Brews and Booze in America's Dairyland

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Embrace the Sober Curious Movement The sober curious movement is gaining traction, and it's a great starting point for Wisconsinites looking to stay sober. This movement encourages people to question their drinking habits and the role of alcohol in their lives, without the pressure of committing to total abstinence. You can still participate in social events, savoring non-alcoholic craft beers and mocktails that many local businesses now offer. Discover Wisconsin's Non-Alcoholic Gems Wisconsin is more than just beer and brandy. Embrace the state's rich heritage by exploring its non-alcoholic offerings. Indulge in the state's famous cheese, take a tour of a dairy farm, or enjoy the great outdoors. The natural beauty of Wisconsin's lakes, forests, and trails can be a sobering and fulfilling alternative to the bar scene. Find Your Tribe Surrounding yourself with supportive people who respect your choice to stay sober is crucial. Look for local sober groups or activitie...

The ABCs of THC: From A to Delta 9

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The ABCs of THC: From A to Delta 9 Welcome to the wild world of weed, where the alphabet is as twisted as the plant’s leaves and the chemistry is as complex as your cousin's explanation of why he's still living in his van. Today, we’re diving into the stoner’s glossary to dissect the differences between THC, THCA, THCB, Delta 8, and Delta 9. What's in a Name? Let’s kick things off with THC, or as the science folks call it, Tetrahydrocannabinol. It's the main psychoactive ingredient in cannabis that gives you that “I’m on top of the world and this couch is my throne” feeling. But not all THC is created equal. Take THCA, or Tetrahydrocannabinolic acid, for instance. It’s THC's acidic precursor found in raw cannabis. Think of THCA as the Clark Kent to THC’s Superman. It doesn’t have psychoactive powers until it's decarboxylated – that's a fancy term for "heated up." So, if you’re munching on raw leaves hoping to fly, sorry to burst your bubble – you’l...

Shedding light on the misunderstood world of addiction

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Navigating the delicate terrain of discussing recovery and sobriety with "normies" Those who haven't experienced addiction firsthand – can feel like explaining quantum physics to a cat. They might look at you with curiosity and confusion, and there's a good chance they'll wander off mid-conversation. First, let's address the big revelation: how do you tell your closest ones about your struggles with addiction? It's like jumping into a pool of cold water – shocking at first, but you know you'll feel better afterward. Start with honesty and simplicity. You don’t need to share every gritty detail. Think of it as introducing your sober self, sans streamers and cake – unless cake helps, then go for it! When talking to kids, remember you're the producer of a PG-rated film. They need the truth, but not the unedited version. Keep it age-appropriate and focus on the positives: "Daddy won’t be a sleepy bear on weekends anymore!" or "Mommy will...

Forgive yourself for what you didn't know...

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  Surviving Trauma, Abuse, and Addiction: The Road to Recovery and Self-Forgiveness Life often feels like a series of survival episodes, doesn't it? Imagine for a moment that you're the star of your own action-packed survival film. The plot twists? Trauma, abuse, and addiction. The setting? The rocky landscape of life's miseries. And the ultimate goal? Recovery and a life filled with peace, stability, and happiness. Now, that's a movie worth watching – and living. Act One: The Unwanted Toolkit In the early scenes of our lives, we're handed a toolkit. This isn't your regular, shiny set of tools. Oh no. These tools are a little ragged, a tad rusty. They're coping mechanisms we develop to deal with the villains of our story: the hurt, the abuse, the trauma. Whether it's retreating into our shells or seeking solace in addictions, we've used these tools to patch up the holes and keep the boat from sinking. Not exactly the Swiss Army knife of emotional ...

Do they Trust you? Some don't trust me either.... YET

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 Rising to the Occasion: The Hilarious Art of Rebuilding Trust in Recovery Earning back trust in relationships during recovery from addiction is a bit like trying to bake a soufflé for the first time: it requires patience, precise ingredients, and the understanding that it might take a few tries before it doesn't implode on itself. The Delicate Dance of Trust Restoration First things first, let's address the soufflé in the room: addiction can wreak havoc on relationships. Trust is often one of the first casualties. But just like that soufflé, trust can rise again with the right approach. It's going to take more than a heartfelt apology or a promise to never do it again; it's about consistent action over time. Think of it as a trust savings account – you've got to make regular deposits and avoid withdrawals. Step One: Accept That Microwave Solutions Don't Exist We live in a world where we can have almost anything at the push of a button. Instant gratification is ...

F*cking Money issues....

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Navigating Financial Triggers: A Journey of Resilience and Recovery In the depths of overcoming a life once shadowed by addiction and criminal activity, finding financial stability can often feel like navigating through a minefield of triggers and temptations. My personal journey from darkness to light has been paved with continuous self-improvement, a steadfast commitment to recovery, and the daily task of reshaping old, detrimental behaviors into positive, life-affirming actions. The financial pressures of raising a family have not made this journey any simpler. As a mother of two active boys and a professional counselor, I grapple with the guilt of my children's challenging early years and the desire to provide for their current wants, which sometimes come with a hefty price tag. This guilt can be a powerful trigger, pushing me toward the precipice of past quick-money schemes that, while not illegal, still resonate with the shadows of my former life. To confront these financial ...