When Your Counselor's Been There: The Raw Truth About Being on Both Sides of the Desk I used to count shots, hits, milligrams. Now I count days of not using meth, opiates, benzos and collections of other what I used to think were “fun” treats. And somewhere between those two realities, I found myself on both sides of the counselor's desk – first as the client trying to keep my shit together, then as the professional helping others do the same. Plot twist, right? Here's the thing about being both a recovering addict and an addiction counselor in rural Wisconsin: it's complicated. Like, "trying to explain TikTok to your grandma" complicated. When you live in a small town, everyone knows everyone's business. The person you're counseling today might have been the same person who watched you stumble out of the local bar five years ago or read about your criminal enterprises in the local papers. That's not just awkward – it's a masterclass in...

  Love and Addiction: When Your Brain Can't Tell the Difference Between Romance and Rehab Let's talk about love and addiction - two things that can make you lose your mind, empty your bank account, and have you crying in a Walmart parking lot at 3 AM. As someone who's been both a substance abuse counselor and a card-carrying member of the "my ex probably deserves their own DSM category" club, I've seen these parallels from every angle possible. The Science of Love: Your Brain on Romance (Spoiler: It's a Mess) Remember that feeling of being high? Well, your brain literally can't tell the difference between that and falling in love. Both flood your system with dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine - nature's own chemical cocktail that makes you feel invincible while simultaneously destroying your ability to make rational decisions. It's like your brain threw a party and forgot to invite your common sense. When you fall in love, your dopamine le...