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Recovery in the Age of Trap and TikTok: Navigating Today's Soundtrack

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  Recovery in the Age of Trap and TikTok: Navigating Today's Soundtrack I'll admit it: the other day, I found myself yelling at a Gen Z relative, "In my time, we had real music! None of this autotuned, mumble-rap nonsense!" (Spoiler alert: I came off as an out-of-touch oldster.) It hit me: the musical landscape has changed dramatically, and this shift can be especially complex for those navigating recovery. Let's face it: fire up TikTok or browse through contemporary charts, and you'll find a mix of tracks that are, quite frankly, a little triggering. Trap bangers with casual references to Xanax as a study aid? check. TikTok creators gleefully lip-syncing about getting lit? You bet. It's enough to make you contemplate deleting your streaming apps and subsisting solely on your oldies playlist. But here's the thing: recovery doesn't mean living in a musical bubble, and there's still a wealth of inspiring, uplifting content out there. You might n...

Surviving (and Actually Enjoying) Thanksgiving in Recovery

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Surviving (and Actually Enjoying) Thanksgiving in Recovery The holidays. A time of joy, gratitude, and hotly contested political debates around the dinner table. It's a season of sparkling lights, cozy sweaters, and the warm, fuzzy glow of a freshly uncorked bottle of wine. Or three. Or ten. For those of us in recovery, the holiday season can feel like a minefield, with triggers lurking behind every innocuous-seeming mug of hot buttered rum. And Thanksgiving, with its focus on food, family, and (let's be real) getting absolutely hammered, can be especially fraught. The Minefield of Family Dynamics Picture this: you're seated at the dinner table, surrounded by the loving faces of your family. Your aunt is telling the same story about your childhood embarrassing moment for the 12th time. Your cousin is loudly expounding on his political views. And your grandma keeps offering you "just one little pill" to take the edge off. For people in recovery, the holidays can be...

Creative Ways to Handle Election Stress (Because Let's Face It, We Need Them)

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  Creative Ways to Handle Election Stress (Because Let's Face It, We Need Them) Election seasons can feel like an endless cycle of anxiety, a political stress rollercoaster we can't escape. It's like being trapped in a never-ending Twitter argument, but with worse punctuation and more existential dread. But fear not, friends! There are ways to cope, even when it feels like the world is losing its collective mind. Embrace Your Inner Artist (Even If You Can't Draw a Straight Line) Get creative! Paint, draw, or sculpt your feelings. You don't have to be good at it. In fact, the worse you are, the more hilarious it might be. Imagine a stick figure of a politician with a bright orange face and a hairdo that resembles a startled cat. Laughter is the best medicine, right? Learn Something New (That Has Absolutely Nothing to Do with Politics) Always wanted to learn how to knit, play the harmonica, or cook exotic dishes? Now's the time! Engage your brain with a new hobby ...