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 When Service Becomes a Battle: Honoring and Helping Our Veterans Facing Addiction


As the tender hues of dawn brush the sky this Memorial Day weekend, a somber reflection falls upon us. It’s a time not merely to ignite barbecue grills or revel in the bliss of a long weekend—it’s a time to pay homage to those who’ve drenched the soil with their sweat, tears, and blood for our nation's call. Yet, amidst the valor we remember, lies a silent battle that rages on—the struggle with addiction that afflicts many veterans who have served with honor.



It is crucial—now more than ever—to tear down the all-too-common misbelief that addiction signifies a lack of willpower. Addiction does not discriminate; it is a relentless force that can besiege anyone, including our most revered soldiers. Their sacrifice for our freedom earns them respect, independent of the personal wars they wage post-service—a fight for normalcy, a fight against an unseen foe: addiction.


These men and women who once stood fearlessly on battlegrounds are now often found fighting in solitude or invisible to society's hurried gaze. How do we stand by them? Remembrance must transform into action; gratitude must morph into support.



To begin with, let’s engage in conversations to better understand these struggles—the isolation, prolonged stress of combat exposures, and pain (both physical and mental) serve as tinder to the fire that is addiction. Let us also rally around veteran-centric organizations dedicated to providing accessible health care, counseling, and rehabilitation services that address this very need.


It is incumbent upon us to exercise our power as civilians by voting for policies that secure better funding for veteran programs. Community-driven initiatives like sober living houses, peer-to-peer support networks, and job opportunities geared towards those who have served can be life-changing resources.



Meanwhile, in our remembrance initiatives this weekend—whether it’s through ceremonies or reflecting upon heroic deeds—we should carve out space for those who continue their battles off the field. Share their stories; shine light on the issue at hand. Let us reach out with words of compassion acknowledging their service and assuring them they are not alone in their current fight.


Memorial Day is about connection—past to present, citizen to soldier. It’s about binding the wounds seen and unseen. So as we lay wreaths and lower flags to half-mast in memory of those we’ve lost, let us also extend hands of hope towards those veterans whose current fight hasn’t concluded.



Be raw in acknowledging their suffering but also real in recognizing their valor continues; be profound by transforming our memory into meaningful acts that uphold their dignity. In doing so, we honor them truly—not just on Memorial Day weekend but every single day after.


Remembering is sacred work; remembering combined with helping is transformative work—for both the bearer and benefactor of gratitude.-Belle-

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