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How to talk to our Kids...

  What do we tell our Children? When discussing the complex topic of addiction with children, it is imperative that we approach the subject with both honesty and sensitivity. Even at a young age, children possess a remarkable capacity for understanding more than we might expect. They often grasp concepts through their inherent curiosity and ability to empathize. So, how do we explain addiction to them in a way that is both appropriate and informative? Firstly, it's important to affirm that kids are indeed incredibly intuitive and can often sense when something is amiss. Their observational skills should not be underestimated; they notice changes in behavior, mood, and routine. Therefore, shrouding the topic of addiction in secrecy is less effective than an honest conversation because kids likely already know that something is going on. A convincing approach to explaining addiction to children involves drawing parallels to things within their realm of understanding. One could explai...

I'm NOT your Savior, but you're mine...

Walking Together: How Being a Counselor and In Recovery Has Saved Me 🙌 In the ebb and flow of life’s tumultuous waters, I've found an anchor in my dual role as a counselor and a person in recovery. It's a journey that has saved my life more than once, a path that intertwines my healing with the privilege of aiding others in theirs. The individuals I have the honor to work with are not just clients; they are my teachers, my inspirations, and the co-authors of our shared narrative of growth. A Mirror and a Window In every face that walks through my door, I see a piece of my own story. The vulnerability, the struggles, the hopes – they hold up a mirror to my past and a window to countless possibilities. This reflective process is a continuous reminder that recovery is not a solitary expedition but a communal voyage. Each person's journey that intersects with mine leaves an indelible mark, a lesson that enriches my understanding of the human spirit. They teach me about resi...

Hustle Harder

  From Street Hustle to Life's Muscle: Turning the Tables on Addiction In the dimly lit corners of the streets, where the hustle is not just a dance move but a way of survival, many have mastered the art of the deal in the world of substance use and addiction. But what happens when the curtain falls on the act of the drug life? How does one transition from the shadows of the streets to the light of recovery, from being the plug to becoming a pillar of strength? Let's explore how the very skills honed in the hustle can become superpowers in the fight for sobriety and success. The Hustle: A Dual-Edged Sword The hustle of the drug life is no joke; it's a high-stakes game where the currency is often one's health, freedom, or life. It requires street smarts, resilience, and an entrepreneurial spirit. But what if we told you that these attributes, once used for a life that drains color from the soul, can be repurposed into a palette to paint a new beginning? Flipping the ...

Life changers and influencers sing all of our stories

  The Healing Rhythms: Musicians Leading the Charge in Recovery and Sobriety Welcome to the stage where the spotlight shines not just on talent, but on courage and healing. In the world of music, an ensemble of artists like Colicchie, NF, DAX, and others are turning their personal battles with addiction and mental health into powerful symphonies of recovery and sobriety. Let's dive into the world where music and healing harmonize to break stigmas and transform lives. Colicchie: From Struggle to Strength Colicchie has become a beacon of hope in the recovery community, using his rap as a raw and authentic narrative of his journey through addiction to recovery. With tracks like "Drug Addiction" that lay bare the grit and pain of his experiences, he's not just rapping lines; he's offering a lifeline to those who feel alone in their struggles. His music acts as a verbal journal, a testament that from the depths of despair, it's possible to rise again. It's ...

Digital Recovery?

  Technology and Recovery: The Digital Lifeline in Healing Hello, dear readers! Today we're embarking on a virtual journey to explore how technology is revolutionizing the recovery process. From apps to online communities, the digital world is opening up new avenues for support and treatment. So, buckle up and let's connect to the Wi-Fi of wellness! Apps: Your Pocket-Sized Support System Think of recovery apps as the Swiss Army knife of digital health tools – they come packed with features to help you navigate the challenges of recovery. These apps can track your sobriety milestones, connect you with support groups, and even provide calming techniques for those moments when you need a digital deep breath. Accessibility is a huge plus here. With just a few taps on your smartphone, a world of resources is at your fingertips. It's like having a recovery coach in your pocket, ready to cheer you on 24/7. And for those in remote areas or with mobility issues, these apps can b...

Willpower Vs Addiction

  Understanding Addiction: More Than Just a Lack of Willpower Welcome, dear readers, to our deep dive into the world of addiction. Now, before we start, let's get one thing straight: if you think addiction is just about lacking willpower, then I'm afraid you've been sipping misinformation. But don't worry, we're here to clear the fog with a blend of science, humor, and a dash of empathy. The Brain: A Chemical Love Story Imagine your brain as a bustling city where neurotransmitters are the citizens communicating with each other. One of these citizens is named Dopamine – let's call him Dopey. Dopey is like that one friend who makes everything more fun. Normally, Dopey hangs out when you're eating your favorite food or winning a game, giving you a sense of pleasure. But in the world of addiction, substances or behaviors hijack the brain's reward system. They flood the brain with Dopey, and suddenly, the brain's city is having too much of a party. Ov...

Ok, I am sober... Now who the Hell am I?

  Recovery: The Journey to Rediscover Ourselves Recovery is not just a word; it's a mosaic of personal stories, each tile reflecting the light of hope and resilience. As a former addict turned substance use disorder counselor, I have navigated the tumultuous seas of addiction and now anchor others as they set sail towards the shores of sobriety. Why do we seek recovery? The reasons are as varied as the individuals asking themselves this profound question. For some, it is the pursuit of health, for others, the mending of relationships torn asunder by the tempest of dependency. We embark on this journey because something precious has been lost to us – peace, self-worth, or perhaps the very essence of who we are. At its core, recovery is about discovery. It's a quest to reclaim what was taken from us and to unearth the treasures we've always held within. It's not just about abstaining from a substance; it's about embracing life in its fullest expression. It's ab...

The Symphony of Recovery

The Symphony of Recovery Recovery is like a delicate melody, unique to each person, echoing through the halls of their lives. It's a deeply personal experience that varies from one individual to another, yet there’s a common rhythm that binds those on the path to healing. As a former addict who now serves as a beacon of hope in the role of a substance use disorder counselor, I have witnessed the transformative power of recovery. Every Note Counts In the grand composition of recovery, every note holds significance, be it a resonant boom or the softest whisper. Progress, no matter the scale – a mile or a millimeter – deserves recognition. It's about the steps you take, the commitment you show, and the determination you muster to keep moving forward. The journey of recovery is not a sprint; it's a marathon. There are no shortcuts, only the relentless pursuit of a better tomorrow, and every inch gained is a victory. The Ensemble of Support But this journey is not meant to be a ...